Confrontation
It may come as a surprise to some of you that there is such a thing as good confrontation. No, I don't mean intervention, though I do believe this is an extremely important version of good confrontation; I am specifically talking about the type of confrontation that comes when you come to a crossroads with how you feel and someone else feels. I find this usually comes in the form of disagreement in conversation. An extraordinarily oversimplified version of this could be something like, Mac and Cheese tastes better with ketchup v.s. putting ketchup in Mac and Cheese defiles its deliciousness. I actually regularly think this when I listen to Gordon Ramsay say how something should be made and I wrinkle my nose in disgust, wondering how in the world such a thing could be better than the classic super-plain version. I, personally, feel this type of confrontation can generally begin and end on friendly terms, usually jokingly. I think of this as an empty confrontation because usually it...